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HOW I STAND UP FOR MYSELF


Being 'Spiritual' can somethings be confusing! (LOL) Let me elaborate...
Last night my path crossed with an individual who preaches ways of peace and love, yet often fails to do so. I was immediately overwhelmed by harsh words from this person that appeared motivated by ego, narcissism, and insecurity. But this is not about that, nor about a bashing session. In fact, I can only type from my point of view and we all know that my filter could be just that....my own personal filter, and nothing more.
There is a bigger reason for this blog; MY RESPONSE. Well, it was nothing. There was no response. Those that know me best may applaud my growth over the last couple years, yet would also laugh violently at some past memories of my very "less-than" ways. 5 years ago, I would have REACTED. Bold, fierce, and wild. Mirroring that person's behavior and engaging in what would mostly likely be a verbal confrontation that could linger for years.
This is why Spirituality can often be confusing for some. We are taught from a young age to "stand up for ourselves!" "Don't let anyone talk down to you!" So it is ingrained in us to be on the look out and stay ready for battle.
But what are we fighting for?
To be right? For face value? Or...ego?
When I do "nothing," I am actually not doing "nothing." I am doing so much more. I AM FIGHTING FOR MY OWN ENERGY. You cannot have it. You cannot have my thoughts, my feelings, or my emotions. I bounce off your "crap." You can keep it. I do not allow such negativity into my aura. I deep breathe to maintain my own flow and then i keep it moving. I will then keep my distance from that individual, however, if/when our paths shall cross again, I stay polite and kind, and without hate harboring in my heart.
To be direct...It's not even that important. Other people's energy is not my job to fix, UNLESS they ask. Which, has happened. (Giving Thanks to the Reiki Gods. LOL ...joking.) But seriously, SOMETHING IS ONLY AS IMPORTANT AS YOU MAKE IT. Now replace "something" with "someONE." Same, same.
It is not always easy to practice what you preach and sometimes old habits, behaviors, and natural reactions want to pop out because we are all human. So when you come across another who is not their best self at that moment, simply...PAUSE.
Spitting venom, fighting fire with fire, or mirroring another's behavior will only lower your vibration and truly offer no solution.
Do not doubt the power of staying calm.

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